Wednesday, 21 January 2026

The Ethics of Attention: 7 Coda: Staying

There is a temptation, at the end of a series like this, to conclude.

To gather the threads, name the lesson, and offer a final position that might be carried away intact.

This episode resists that temptation.

Because attention, properly understood, does not culminate. It stays.


Staying Is Not Stasis

To stay is not to freeze, linger sentimentally, or refuse movement. It is not indecision.

Staying is an ethical stance toward relation.

It means remaining with what is present long enough for it to articulate itself—without forcing articulation, without demanding resolution.

One stays not because nothing else could be done, but because doing more would be a way of not attending.


When Attention Is Enough

Much of modern life is structured around escalation:

  • more information,

  • more interpretation,

  • more response.

Attention, in this climate, is always under pressure to produce.

But there are moments—many more than we admit—when attention itself is sufficient.

No clarification is required.
No outcome must be secured.
No synthesis needs to be achieved.

To stay is to recognise those moments, and to refuse the compulsion to exceed them.


Meaning Without Outcome

The series has argued that meaning is not a product to be extracted, but a relation that is entered.

Staying is the form that relation takes when it is not hurried toward closure.

Nothing new may happen.
Nothing may change.

And yet, something is sustained: a readiness, a responsiveness, a care that does not exhaust itself by trying to finish.

This is not resignation. It is composure.


Beckettian Restraint

Beckett understood this with brutal clarity.

Waiting is not redeemed by arrival.
Silence is not justified by sound.

What matters is not that something eventually happens, but that attention remains possible in its absence.

Staying, here, is not hopeful. It is honest.


Refusal of the Final Word

This episode offers no conclusion.

It does not resolve the ethics of attention, complete its ontology, or stabilise its implications.

That refusal is deliberate.

A final word would be a form of control.
Staying is a refusal of that control.


An Invitation

So this is where we stop.

Not because there is nothing more to say,

but because saying more would be a way of leaving.

Attention does not always move on.

Sometimes, it stays.

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